Moffatt did talk about the aftermath with Molly in an interview with EW. Here's part of it:
... She gets over it! Surely at a certain point you have to figure out that after Sherlock escapes tells her, “I’m really sorry about that, it was a code, I thought your flat was about to blow up.” And she says, “Oh well that’s okay then, you bastard.” And then they go back to normal, that’s what people do. I can’t see why you’d have to play that out. She forgives him, of course, and our newly grown-up Sherlock is more careful with her feelings in the future...
You can read the rest here. Mind you, I don't really buy that she gets over it that quickly and I'd rather have seen it played out on screen, but at least he did give it some thought (even if we don't agree with it).
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... She gets over it! Surely at a certain point you have to figure out that after Sherlock escapes tells her, “I’m really sorry about that, it was a code, I thought your flat was about to blow up.” And she says, “Oh well that’s okay then, you bastard.” And then they go back to normal, that’s what people do. I can’t see why you’d have to play that out. She forgives him, of course, and our newly grown-up Sherlock is more careful with her feelings in the future...
You can read the rest here. Mind you, I don't really buy that she gets over it that quickly and I'd rather have seen it played out on screen, but at least he did give it some thought (even if we don't agree with it).